For all the usual reasons, I have been in this hobby for over 30 years. Just when I thought I knew how the game was played, a new wrinkle. I won't name the
amp at the moment, because there's nothing noteworthy to report, and my experiences have been essentially those reported before. So here's the story: I went to this place in a certain urban area, where all was once verboten, and now seems to be loosening a bit. The astute reader will deduce immediately. I picked this place because it had a mixed record, and reports of very good massages. I regularly need the latter, and I suppose I thought I could master the former, if it could be decoded. On my first visit I got, indeed, a very good massage, well covered with towels, and enough "brush bys" to get my attention. I responded appreciatively and encouragingly to each brush by. I took the
table shower option, but got a firm no when I had exhausted all hints. I gave her a reasonable tip for the good massage, and left, thinking of several things I could have done better.
On my second visit, I paid the massage fee up front, tried to be a little friendlier, and pulled the towel off after the flip. She put it at the foot of the table without complaint. Otherwise no change.
On my third visit, we exchanged names, smiles, I paid in advance again, and this time I put something under my glasses on the table, without comment. As she went back and forth for the massage oil, she had ample time to see it. I removed the towel as before, and the only thing different was more definitive brush bys, and at the end, she got between my legs and did some light work that ran from my thighs upward and back again, which produced a little dream like experience, but then she called time and we're done. As I dressed, I put the something away and gave her twenty on parting.
Now, the accumulated evidence suggests to me that there may be a happy ending to this story, but what I'm wondering most right now, is what is she thinking? I'm inclined to repeat my routine next time, in hopes that she will get my point, that I'm willing to tip well for good service, but I would appreciate your thoughts on what she's thinking and what else I might do?