massagefan left a poor review of the provider, yet also left her $80 for a poor HJ? Makes no sense at all. If she was so bad, why leave such a generous tip? You also left the message that she did a good job, since you tipped her so much. I wish people would think with their heads once in a while.
I don't know about massage fan...but at the time of upgrade, the money was asked for up front. The "tip" as it were was for the upgrade....kinda like automatic gratuity added onto the end of your restaurant check.